Navigate Social Outings Safely

Recently, it seems that every time you turn on the news, there is an alarming incident involving brazen violence, criminals, and protests in the streets. Road rage, shootings, violent crimes, carjackings, robberies, accidental overdoses, and unexpected attacks on civilians and businesses of all sizes have been reported. So, how can we feel safe in public when these issues seem to be getting worse? According to Time magazine, crime in America alone has increased by an alarming 39% since the pre-pandemic times of 2019.

In recent times, the rise in violence and shootings across America has understandably caused concern and anxiety among individuals. This blog aims to provide guidance on how to cope with going out with friends while being mindful of the current situation. While it is crucial to prioritize safety, it is also important to maintain social connections and engage in activities that bring joy and fulfillment. By following certain precautions and adopting a proactive mindset, you can navigate social outings with friends in a responsible manner.

Stay Informed

Stay updated on the latest news and developments in your local area. Familiarize yourself with any potential risks or areas to avoid. Reliable sources such as local law enforcement agencies and news outlets can provide valuable information to help you make informed decisions about where and when to go out.

Choose Safe Locations

When planning outings with friends, opt for venues that have a reputation for safety. Consider places with security measures in place, such as well-lit areas, security personnel, or surveillance systems. Additionally, select venues that have a history of being incident-free or have positive reviews regarding safety. Always tell someone where you are going in case something does occur so they know where to look.

Plan Ahead

Before heading out, communicate with your friends and establish a plan. Share your concerns and discuss safety measures you can collectively adopt. This may include arranging transportation, designating meeting points, or establishing a communication protocol in case of emergencies. I always pack a bag with water, a snack, a phone charger, and extra clothes and keep a blanket in the car in case I get stranded. Also, make sure your phone is fully charged and you have a full tank of gas.

Trust Your Instincts

If you feel uncomfortable or sense any potential danger during an outing, trust your instincts and take appropriate action. It is better to err on the side of caution and remove yourself from a potentially risky situation. Inform your friends and seek a safer environment or contact local authorities if necessary. The old saying “trust your gut” is so true. I had so many incidents that felt seedy, and I didn’t go, only to find out something happened that night or a day later.

Be Mindful of Your Surroundings

While enjoying the company of friends, remain aware of your surroundings. Avoid distractions such as excessive alcohol consumption or being engrossed in your phone. Stay vigilant and observant, as being aware of your environment can help you identify and respond to any potential threats. If you feel like someone’s behavior is off, stay away from them and move to a safe location. If someone is following you, report it right away; it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Report Suspicious Activity

If you notice any suspicious behavior or activity, report it to the appropriate authorities immediately. By doing so, you contribute to the safety of your community and potentially prevent any untoward incidents. In New Jersey, they are currently running ads and have signs on the highways that say, “See something, Say something.” Visit your state or county safety sites as well to keep yourself informed about incidents or resources.

While the increasing violence and shootings in America can be unsettling, it is important to strike a balance between safety and maintaining social connections. By staying informed, choosing safe locations, planning ahead, trusting your instincts, being mindful of your surroundings, and reporting suspicious activity, you can navigate social outings with friends in a responsible manner. Remember, your safety and well-being should always be the top priority, and by taking necessary precautions, you can still enjoy meaningful social interactions while minimizing potential risks